I have the same problems with my spouse sometimes. For example, I saw a roach in the house and I was adamant that we spend the money to get the house fumigated. He got angry at me for complaining and tried to make it seem like I was over reacting. I am sorry, there is no such thing as over reacting when it comes to roaches. Maybe I will write him a letter and explain the thousands of reasons they are bad. Of course I think he must know that, he just doesn't want to deal with it. But ignoring a roach problem is the worst think you can do. I usually consult him on big purchases but I have went ahead and called an exterminator and he can just suck it up.