I couldn't agree more. I did go through a period making candles. I buy them now and am particularly careful in all aspects of using them. I've seen candle holders made of wood of all things.I'm somewhat paranoid around open flames myself. I'm always careful to position candles away from anything flammable, including clothing, bedding and curtains, and I'll never leave a room with a lit candle in it, or fall asleep without blowing the candle out first.